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Ughhh life has been low-key BLAH..
just hum drum...i need to find something new and exciting to keep my attention..the predictability of school and practice is getting BO-RING lol sheesh...looking for some inspiration ASAP!




amaka. <3

"you lost everything you had chasin them scallywags"

Thats a line from Letoya Luckett's song 'Regret', whose video just came out. That song is like every girl's anthem..."You must regret the day that you left me" haha..yea yea I admit I was blasting that song in my care and singing my heart out to it when it first came out. LOL Anyways, heres the video

one word..wow

Trey Songz new video 'Invented Sex'...(takes a deep breath) WHEW! lol the video speaks for itself




please...watch and discuss


I c u trey! =]

Oh the things that social networks allow us to do

SMH at http://secrettweet.com/

For those familiar with Twitter, Secret Tweet .com allows people to post tweets anonymously about anything that their hearts desire.

This twitter page is wild..this site encourages people to let out their secrets to the world...Tweets from 'secret tweet include tweets like:

"I have sex with my neighbour every week. Her husband doesn't know. Neither does my wife."
"naked, eating an eggplant and peanut butter sandwich, while watching top chef on itunes. I love my life. (and my wife by my side)"
"My 22nd birthday is next week. The only thing I wish for is to find a friend."
"My husband & I recently separated. My sister just told me he invited her to his new place. Both of us are way out of his league. Jerk"

...it even gets pretty sick..like literally
"When my dad learned his best friend had molested me when I was a child, he worked on strengthening their friendship"


Im not sure this type of behavior is very healthy lol...but if you are interested in reading people's innermost secrets, visit the website or follow them on twitter lol smh!

NEW VIDEOS!

Empire State of Mind- Jay-z ft. Alicia Keys



- OMG i love this video! It makes me wish I was from NY! I most definately HAVE to live there at some point in my life! Point.blank.period.

Baby By ME- 50 Cent ft. Ne-yo



OK OK i see you 50 Cent! and Kelly too!
I dont know why, but I've always lowkey had a thing for 50 lol..must be that NY swagger haha


Wait Your Turn- Rihanna



all I have to say is that Its funny that no matter how much I love Rihanna's style and image..I cant always say the same for her music =/

okkkk Rocsi

Now, Ill be the 1st to admit....I'm not a huge fan of Rocsi...I pretty much look at her with indifference....but shes looking pretty fly in these pictures from Honey mag.



However, her comments about being "thick" are a bit disturbing
"As women you have those fat days, but in my mind, those days are a little too frequent,” Rocsi says. “To this day, when somebody calls me thick, that’s not a compliment to me. Don’t call me thick. I hate that. I think thick is fat. I used to think that if I had curves or stomach flab that meant I was fat. I used to go over 110 lbs, I would think ‘I’m fat.’ If I see on a scale 118 [lbs.], I would start starving myself to get myself down to what I need to be at."
viaNecoleBitchie

First of all...whooo the heck is calling Rocsi thick?! The girl is a skinny stick! I guess it goes back to her anorexic days..SMH anyways I just thought this was actually a good look for the girl

lmao Kid Cudi is silly

teach me how to JERK Dougie

LOL

Speaking of Chris Brown....

he has a new video out....'I Can Tranform Ya' =] enjoy.




also inspiring the throwback joint of the day...one of my favorite song ===> ' I May Never Find' ....yea Im in that kind of mood lol

Sex, Lies, and Videotapess

Chris Brown recently posted a video on his twitter reminiscing about he and Rihanna's past relationship



I guess this guy is living in the past..I'm not gonna comment on whether or not C. Breezy should even be reminiscing on his relationship after what he did...I mean this could just be a pub. stunt to help him sell more records, but the video is sweet...a lil soft, but sweet nonetheless.

Its funny how relationships work sometimes.


Something that could start out so grand can quickly turn so sour. I mean, relationships are complicated. Sometimes I wish I could go back to the days where you were in elementary school (and yess I say elementary, because people were getting it in during middle school lol smh!), and a note asking "Do you like me" with the box checked yes would suffice for a relationship. Every year that I get older, things get more and more complicated. And just because I'm contemplating the issues surrounding relationships doesn't necessarily mean I want to be in one. Im just curious about the dynamic of relationship and what makes it work, and what doesnt work. Especially in college...things like stress from school, partying, sex, infidelity, a new found freedom, drugs, alcohol, more sex, and the fact the more females go to college than males, and o yea sex...all contribute to complications in relationships and a lot of infidelity lol.

The reason why I say sex so much, is because, welp...its true lol. I mean, in college, finding a virgin is probably going to be a difficult task. I mean you may have came in as a virgin, or even as just being celibate, but it doesnt mean you are leave as one. haha.


I mean I can see both viewpoints, on one hand THIS IS COLLEGE, you will never have an experience like this is your life! If there was ever a time to wild out, experience new things, and do whatever the hell you feel like doing, this would be it...but on the other hand...college is a learning experience, and what you experience should teach you how to be a better adult and that includes learning responsibility, especially where sex is concerned lol. Its funny how virgins are almost looked down upon in college, kinda like how a rich Republican man may look at a bum on the streets of a big city. They just look at the bum and SMH. haha I was reading my relationship blog NakedWithSocksOn, and the author of the blog talks about how he wouldnt even want a virgin


"While the idea of a bride in a flowing white dress and saving yourself for marriage sounds nice for a fairytale wedding, in today’s oversexed society it’s just not a realistic dream—for me at least. In fact, that would actually be a nightmare. The reason I say that is because I’ve literally spent half my life perfecting my stroke and poke, so when and if I jump the broom I want it to be with a woman that can satisfy me—now not later. ....Honestly, the whole idea of virginity being a sign of purity is one big crock. Sex doesn’t change a person’s personality"

lol sheesh..kinda harsh but like I said I can understand both points of view...anyways I kinda wrote almost too much on this subject. lol Just thought it was interessante ...check out my beezzy Nnenna's view on subject NnennAboo