back to school

So my computer is goin under the knife later than scheduled.
So one more post!

School is starting next week!! Bittersweet moment, last year of college =[
Anyways, these outfits remind me of  "back to school" wear.

until next time...



My blog is going on a brief hiatus while my computer goes in for repairs, yet again! 
Toodles! See you soon! <3


This pretty much describes me in a nutshell..in its entirety.

...and if you dont know, now you know....

I like the person that you are, but I'm in love with the person that you have potential to be

Ambition- An eager or strong desire to achieve something, such as fame or power.
An admirable trait to say the least. Ambitious men are always perceived as attractive, sexy, and successful. But, it hasn't always been that way for women. Especially black women. Ambitious girls after often seen as daunting and intimidating. Glad to know that someone is looking for us girls that are trying to get theirs and make it on their own.
I know that is song has been out for a minute, but I just got around to hearing today. This is def my new new ish! 
Ambitious Girl- Wale

 "Ambitious girl, you just wanna win, and you'd rather chase your dreams, then to try to chase these men"

"choosy Lover"

I saw this blog posting today. I thought it was quite cute and that I would share it with you all. Original post can be found here.

‘Choosey lover, boy I’m so proud of you… I’m so glad you choose me baby, and I’ll make you happy’
The quiet simplicity of the song’s lyrics often deters me from singing along. I would rather listen and wear the quiet smile of futuristic understanding.
My search is for a quiet love. Ambitious love… That fearless with invisible wings type of love.
I want that old love, that Nat King Cole featuring Ella Fitzgerald type of love. But still keep it fresh love, so can Trey Songz sing the chorus?
If this was a survey, I would tick ‘STRONGLY DISAGREE’ next to the statement that reads ‘I want love to sneak up on me and yell surprise’
I want love to take purposeful steps towards me and say hello. I want to look into love’s eyes and see a reflection of my own recognition ‘Oh hello…it’s you…finally’
I want love to take me to dinner and adore the way I sometimes drop my fork. Hold my hand in the busy streets and protect me from gum wrappers lying on the floor.
I want love to know me, I want to take off my clothes and show myself, my body, my spirit, my mind, my own personal love…
I want love to judge me, upgrade me, elevate me towards a greater love; Self Love.
I am single because I am waiting…


labor day shots

I used Labor Day to try and experiment more with my camera. I'm trying to blur the background. I need more practice!


out and about

As I said before, I was out and about the past couple days and used it as an opportunity to practice my photography.

street style

I was out and about this weekend, and I got featured in a street style posting on a blog called ' Tiny Tee's Big Small World'. Check it out HERE !


"BE YOU unapologetically"


#truth of the day

" People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform your life… -"

- Via Melody Ehsani

creative muse AKA boredom sets

21 roses.

90210 love

902010 starts next week, cant wait!
These ladies always bring it with their wardrobe!


Straight from the horses mouth

I recently came across this blog written by a bunch of seemingly educated, witty and enlightened black men. They had some interesting articles, and this one in particular caught my eye.

5 Things Men Say (and do) When We’re Just Running Game

Original article found here.

1. “I’m not ready for a relationship right now”
"It’s game because, we’ll, we’re not idiots. We know exactly what we’re doing, exactly how horny you are, and exactly what your expectations were entering the night. But, because she’s already thisclose to “go”, saying “I’m not ready for a commitment” at that moment allows a guy to do commitment type stuff (read: sex) while always having an “Hey, I told you I wasn’t ready for a serious relationship” out whenever she presses him for an actual commitment."

2. “You’re nobody to me”
"Although most men won’t actually come out and tell a woman he’s interested in that he thinks she doesn’t matter, “You’re nobody to me” game occurs when a guy treats a beautiful woman as persona non-grata for absolutely no reason. If he sees her with a group of her girlfriends, he’ll speak to and hug each of them except her. She tells a joke, he mimics a cricket. And, not only does he pretend to not know her name ahead of time, he doesn’t even remember it after she tells him...
This is game because, well, savvy men know that attractive women are used to men paying attention to them. And, even though they might be attracted to that woman, they know that ignoring her can reverse the seduction script. 

3. “You can be intimidating”
While it’s true that a very small percentage of women are intimidating to a very small percentage of men, it’s game because well, men don’t talk to women who intimidate them. Why? Because they’re intimidated, duh....Also, if she replies “What’s so intimidating about me?”, she’s now given him carte blanche to run off a list of each of her perceived faults right in front of her face. Think about that for a minute. She basically tells himHey, I’m not even sure if I’m interested in you yet, but go right ahead and tell me everything you think is f*cked up about meAlso, if you say that I’m “frigid and stiff”, I’ll make sure to show you exactly how loose I can be in the back of your Tahoe later tonight

4. “A woman like you is out of my league”
His faux self-deprecation becomes an intoxicant, putting her under a spell of hownormalcanimakemyselfseemjust so he’ll give her a chance.

5. “I don’t know. I’ll try to fit you in, but I’m just really busy with a few projects right now”

He’s getting his grind on, and he wishes he could make more time for you, but for now the Wendy’s drive thru and those 15 minutes in his parking lot will do. And, you’re ok with this because he’s a busy man, and it makes you feel even better that this important man is making any time in his busy schedule for you.
It’s game because no man on Earth has ever been that busy. Sh*t, even God had time to hit the strip club the night after he created troutBut, the super busy man knows nothing dries panties quicker than the thought of a needy man, so he gives the impression that he’s the complete antithesis
My Thoughts:
I loovvvvveeed this article! I have stated previously that I can appreciate good game, and don't mind being gamed up. Maybe it's the kid in me that allows a slight level of immaturity to pervade my psyche. But besides all that, the article was on point and ladies you know this is all true. The funniest and most delicious part about this article is that, if we are truthful with ourselves ladies, most of the time we know that these statements are part of a guys game..we just choose to ignore it. haha

I just hope that you miss me a little when I'm Gone

New Drake Video- Miss Me...

boy do I love me some D.R.A.K.E.
the video is pretty coo if you ask me
watch and discuss.

Other new vids:
-When A Woman Loves- R. Kelly

-Cant Be Friends -Trey Songz
Trey never fails to bring the sexy to his videos
....and it looks like he gained some weight...nice....very nice.

Watch the video here