7.07.2010

what we "really" need

I know a lot of guys complain about girls who have a "checklist". 
"I gotta have a man thats at least ___ tall, makes _____ money , and is ______, ____, _____"
I guess, they may be justified in their complaints, but everyone does it, not just girls.
"I like her long-hair, thick, red-boned..."
Sound familiar?
I guess its really the difference between "preferences" and what we actually "need", and sometimes I suppose we dont know what we need. 
Just something to think about.
Anyways, these guys compiled a list of what they think women "need", versus what they actually "want."

Her Wants Vs. Her Needs

A woman wants a man that would never be disrespected by others … A woman needs a man that would never stop respecting her.

A woman wants a man with a flawless body … A woman needs a man with an impeccable character.

A woman wants a man 6’3 or taller … A woman needs a man that stands tall in the face of adversity.

A woman wants a man that’s financially secure … A woman needs a man that’s emotionally stable.

A woman wants a man with a beautiful smile … A woman needs a man with a beautiful heart.

A woman wants a man that’s confident in his approach … A woman needs a man that’s dedicated in his delivery.

A woman wants a man with unlimited potential … A woman needs a man with unlimited drive.

A woman wants a man that people think the world of … A woman needs a man that thinks the world of her.

A woman wants a man that’s willing to die for her … A woman needs a man that’s ready to live for her.

A woman wants a man that has seen the world … A woman needs a man that sees the world in her.

A woman wants a man that fulfills her checklist … A woman needs a man willing to love her in spite of his checklist.



Not a bad list, I'll admit sometimes what we want isnt exactly what we need.
Sometimes we dont even know what we want, let alone what we need. Figuring it out is probably the hardest part.




find the original article HERE

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